Men Don't Love Women Like You!: The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer

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A man is only as faithful as his options. What that means is that a man with few women who find him attractive is no different from a man who’s a famous athlete that thousands of women find attractive, in terms of his lust for something new. Mr. No Options wants to experience the rush of different women, but he behaves himself because there are no serious takers. Money can buy sex, and some men go that route, but for a man who isn’t willing to pay a prostitute and doesn’t have women threatening to throw it at him for free, he can’t act out on that thrill seeking. That fire still burns inside of him, but he is able to manage it better than the athlete, the celebrity, or regular Joe who women find to be “dream guy” attractive. For the record, this isn’t something that a man can’t control, chasing pussy isn’t like breathing air, any man can choose not to chase women. If one tells you it’s uncontrollable, he’s full of shit. I point this out not to make you see men as horny cavemen, but so you can stop lying to yourself about casting some kind of love spell because you had sex with a man. I want you to understand that all men have a roaring fire that they walk around engulfed in, and a smart woman can use that to her benefit (In a non Ho Tactics way) when gaining power over men. We’ll dive into this technique later on in the book, after you Spartan Up.

Men live under the pressure of having to appear strong: they will not tell your anxieties if you ask them. Might I also add? The cursing was WAAAY too heavy in this book. If you're a man tailoring your book to WOMEN, you need to tone DOWN your foul language. I'm sorry. There's just no REASON why a paragraph of text should Most men won’t tell you that you aren’t Game Changer material, they let you assume that you are, in a cowardly act of wanting to maintain comfort until she appears. Even if you’re reading this and have a boyfriend, you may just be a placeholder. Hell, I’ve even met married women who turned out to be placeholders. The signs are always there! He’s telling you, but he isn’t really showing you love on his own. You feel unappreciated as if he would rather be doing something else. You feel his stress the moment you don’t want to do what he wants to do. You think that’s what men do in relationships because you’ve always been a placeholder. You have always had to fuss and fight to get his love, and you assumed that it was how men were…no, you are a placeholder. He cares about you, he does a few nice things, he tells you he loves you, but he isn’t in love with you. Who falls in love with a temp? Men lie about how much they love you; they fake relationships and treat Pussy as if it’s Wifey when they don’t actually have to go that far just to get convenient sex or stress-free companionship. Nevertheless, the Achilles heel that brings the average woman down isn’t the fact that men lie, it’s the fact that women are so consumed with trying to become what a man wants forever that they ignore his lies in hopes they can win him over eventually. No relationship should be built on eventually! Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus says this is normal female behavior. Helping Without Emasculating It starts with you: you have your own life, you don’t settle, and you demand respect and investmentIn the video she posted, KC Davis speaks about a professor from college who explained a theory about how patriarchal masculinity socializes men and why “shame, violence and disgust are so intricately linked”. The concept that being a man is defined by not being a woman is a result of patriarchal oppression and a long history of feminine attributes being seen as undervalued, and being masculine considered as powerful. From then on, the goal is to make him feel comfortable and safe to share the most truthful answers.

I work and have my own. I don’t need a man financially. I’m the type of woman mothers love. I’m very caring and nurturing. I would make a great mother and wife, myself. I focus on one man because I’m loyal. I don’t hang with a lot of girls or put my business online. I’m not clingy or annoying. I stand by my man no matter what. My ex-boyfriends will tell you that I was the best girlfriend they ever had. I’m not trying to brag but look at me, men are always trying to wife me. Listen, ask, listen, ask follow-ups. Don't let it be your monologue. People love to hear themselves talk more than they like to listen to others talk. Have you ever thought, “If he didn’t really like me he would go call another woman, he’s not ugly”? That’s a part of this hustle. So many women in typical fashion point to the man she’s talking to or dating and then point to the world of women he could have, and then come to the conclusion that if he is continuing to be on her heels that she means more than those other women. I repeat, the short-term goal for men is to experience a new woman; the mid-term goal is to have one or two on the roster that fulfills that thirst for a time. Just because you fit the description of mid-term seat filler, doesn’t mean you are his long-term Game Changer. Let go of the egotistical view that a man who won’t stop calling you or who always wants to see you is actually into you, until you actually go through the vetting process. The best women to have on a team aren’t going to be one night stands, jump-offs, or girls who are traditionally cool with a FWB relationship. Men don’t want the bottom of the barrel even when choosing a girl who is only going to be “Something to do for a few months.” He wants something that is, at least, entertaining and who he can stomach for those months…maybe even a few years, without getting annoyed.The author recommends you sometimes disappear for a day to make him realize how much he misses you. Revised from the ebook version with several stories from those of you who read it and gave me your results. Thank you!)

Men will always play along and act as if you’re the most interesting woman in the world. You have a new vagina he hasn’t sampled yet, so he’s going to flatter you and feign impressed, but I know what’s actually going on in his head. While sitting across from you, a man is hearing the same typical responses and the same typical opinions. He can tell that, with maybe a few exceptions, you are exactly like that nurse who he dated for three weeks, slept with, and then got bored with—Yawn! 9 out of 10 women bring the same shit to the table in terms of academics, employment, and domestic abilities. “Where is he ever going to meet a woman who is intelligent and makes over 80k a year?” Everywhere! KC Davis gives her take on “how to teach boys to be men” @domesticblistersReply to @absurdistsisyphus why is learning to being good/worthwhile connected to our gender performance anyways? #masculinity #feminism #patriarchy ♬ original sound – Kc Davis Men Don't Love Women Like You!: The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer txtBut what does it mean to be a “man” in today’s society? Terry Real, a renowned couple’s therapist, lecturer and bestselling author told Forbes, that “we all live under patriarchy, which is a rigid dichotomy of gender roles.” It tells us that men are supposed to be strong, independent, unemotional, logical and confident. Whereas women are assumed to be expressive, nurturing, weak and dependent. “Traditional gender roles don’t make anybody happy and they don’t make for intimacy,” he said.

The author has some good tips on spending the first night over. Why and how to do it. When to Have Sex upvotes Follow Unfollow 1 year ago (edited) Dots Created by potrace 1.15, written by Peter Selinger 2001-2017 Men Don't Love Women Like You!: The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer excel Even a woman who doesn’t have anything going for herself can spin her circumstances like a politician. “I’m taking night classes; I’m not going to be a waitress forever…I only work at Wal-Mart because it’s flexible in terms of giving me time to start and grow my own business.” No matter if she’s a Bottle Girl at a night club or cashier at Home Depot, she can make herself sound just as impressive as the next woman in terms of ambition. Men don’t look down at women who don’t have much. The stereotype of “don’t ask for a successful man, if you aren’t a successful woman,” is unfounded! Look at who men routinely marry, fight over, and chase down. Men are more concerned with a personality type that shows him something different from the last girl he took out. Nevertheless, these Basicas are only a small part of the dating pool for men who aren’t in lower-class environments. When men of a certain caliber date, meaning men who are equal or above you in terms of success and education, they aren’t running into that many basics; they are running into women who shop where they shop, party where they party, and live where they live. Meaning the women they encounter the most, have the fundamental things that any woman outside of a hood or trailer park would have: Education and Employment.Then the author goes ahead to tell women to take control of their lives, their pussy: be a SPARTAN. Then goes ahead to spell out what to do. Make him earn you, not offer yourself to you. Why would I waste time earning a woman yet there are 100 others who are ready to offer themselves? The author says those others are typical bitches, don't be a typical bitch.